Safety On The Job

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Welcome to the team

This guide is here to keep you safe, in control, and looked after on every booking. Read it before your first job. Come back to it whenever you need a refresher. Nothing in here is complicated, but all of it matters.

It is written for girls going straight into private bookings, bucks parties, boys nights, birthdays, and private functions. You do not need venue or skimpy experience to work with us. You just need to know how to keep yourself safe, and that is exactly what this covers.

One promise from us: you will never be pressured to do anything you are not comfortable with. Not by a client, not by another girl, not by us. Your boundaries are the whole point.

The line that never moves

No sexual services. Ever.

Private waitressing and strip shows do not include prostitution or sexual services of any kind. This is the one rule that has zero flexibility, and it protects you more than anything else in this guide.

No sex with clients. Not for money, not for free, not even if you find them attractive. No sexual favours of any kind while working through LL&Co.

There must be no crossover between adult entertainment and prostitution. Keeping that line clean is what keeps the work legal, keeps you safe, and keeps the whole network trusted.

Before the booking

Pre-booking checks

Every booking goes through LL&Co. first. We run the checks, we hold the client information, and we know where you are meant to be. That is your safety net. Use it.

Before a booking is confirmed, these are checked and recorded:

• Client details. Name, address, contact number, and client ID where required.
• Venue type. Private home, hotel, party bus, licensed venue, or workshop. Each carries different risks.
• Guest numbers. How many people, and who the night is for.
• Adult only, no minors. Confirmed before every booking. If a minor is present, the booking does not proceed.
• Service, outfit level and any extras (lap dances or shows). Agreed in writing, in advance.
• Payment. Amount, method (cash, EFTPOS or bank transfer), and confirmation it is paid upfront.
• Alcohol and drug indicators. Anything the client has said that points to heavy intoxication or drug use.
• Solo or two worker decision. Based on group size, venue and risk. You can always request a second worker.

The outcome: green, amber or red

Every booking gets rated by the agency before handover to you is completed.

Getting there and home

Your transport, your control

How you travel is one of the biggest safety decisions you make on any job. Travel and isolation are the two risks that bite hardest on private and regional bookings. Keep it in your hands, always.

• Never get in a client's car. Use your own transport, a taxi, or a rideshare.
• Never let a client book or pay for your accommodation. Accommodation is arranged independently, by you or through LL&Co., never by the client and never at the client's address.
• Plan your parking or pickup point before you arrive. Somewhere lit, close, and easy to leave from. Reverse in if you can.
• Always have a backup. Rideshare or taxi app loaded, phone charged, and enough credit to get home without needing anything from anyone at the booking.
• Regional and overnight bookings need approval. These are arranged through LL&Co. in advance, with travel and accommodation locked in before you leave.
• Never stay after the booking is done. When the time is up, you leave. No lingering, no after party.

On the job

Stay sharp, stay in control

You are working. A relaxed, fun energy is part of the job, but being in control of yourself is what keeps you safe and keeps your reputation solid.

Your call, always

Your boundaries are yours

You decide what you are comfortable with, before and during every booking. That never changes, and no one gets to talk you out of it.

• You can change your mind at any time. Agreeing to something earlier does not lock you into it. You can withdraw consent at any point, for any reason, including mid-booking and mid-show.
• No touching, beyond friendly. The default is hands off. The only exception is friendly, non-sexual contact, anywhere you would happily touch your nan, an arm or a shoulder. Everywhere else is off limits.
• No intimate touching, ever. No client touches you between your legs or anywhere intimate, at any point, in any service.
• No photos or video unless you have agreed. If you allow them, you set the poses and the limits. Clients do not control filming.
• Saying no is always allowed. You never owe anyone a yes.

Working alongside other girls

On a lot of bookings you will work with one or two other girls. Respect each other's boundaries as much as your own.

Different boundaries are not a problem. Pressuring someone is. No one pressures, mocks, guilts or undercuts another worker's safety limits, and no one gets treated badly for holding a line or for reporting something. Have a quick chat before you go in so you are on the same page, and back each other up on the night.

Payment safety

Get paid the right way

Handling money cleanly protects you from awkward situations and from clients who try it on. Keep it simple and keep it upfront.

• Paid upfront, before you undress. The client pays for the agreed service before anything starts. No exceptions.
• Confirm the money has actually landed. Cash in your hand, or the payment showing in your account. A screenshot of a transfer is not proof of payment, and pending transfers can be reversed.
• If a client will not pay upfront, you do not start. Message LL&Co. straight away and we will sort it.
• No unpaid extensions. Ever. If the booking runs on, it is paid upfront, at your rate, before the extra time starts.
• Never chase a difficult payment alone. Step back and contact us.

The job itself

What you actually do at a private

Underneath the nerves, the job is genuinely fun. You are there to lift the energy and give the group a great night. Here is the core of it:

• Serve drinks and food
• Tidy up if needed
• Be friendly, flirty, funny, and easy to be around
• Mingle with everyone, especially the guest of honour (the bucks, the birthday boy, whoever the night is for)
• Run and play party games
• Offer shows or lap dances if you want to (completely optional, covered next)

Confidence comes with practice. Your first one or two might feel big, that is normal. Lean on the other girls, keep it light, and remember the group already wants a good time. You are the reason they get one.

Extras, on your terms

Shows and extras, safety first

Shows and lap dances are optional add-ons you can offer to earn more on a booking. They are never required.

Training and competency

Get trained and approved before offering a show. Training may include shadowing an experienced contractor, direct instruction, a written procedure, and a competency sign-off.

Online videos alone are not competency. Watching something on YouTube is not the same as being trained, and it will not protect you if something goes wrong. Ask us and we will arrange it properly.

The non-negotiable rules

• The client watches. The client does not touch. During any show, no client touches you between your legs or anywhere intimate. That rule holds no matter what is offered or what is paid.
• Hygiene is a procedure, not a vibe. Clean equipment every time, single-person items where relevant, a proper disinfectant process, hand hygiene, barriers or PPE where required, and safe storage and disposal. No shared unclean equipment, ever. If the hygiene controls are not available, you stop.
• Set your own minimum price. Talk to other girls about what they charge so you do not sell yourself short.

The hard line on extras

Prohibited and high-risk activities

This list exists so that no one can talk you into an off-menu escalation on the night. If it is not in the booking, it is not happening.

Never. No approval exists for these.

These are not negotiable, not for any client, any price, or any amount of pleading. There is no version of a booking where these become acceptable.

• Choking, breath restriction, or anything affecting airways. Strangulation can kill hours later, and it is a criminal offence in WA.
• Restraints of any kind on you. You must always be able to leave. Anything that stops you leaving defeats every other rule in this guide.
• Weapons of any kind.
• Sharps, needles, blades, or anything that breaks skin. Blood exposure risk.
• Drugs in any form, including body shots and lines off your body. Body shots put a client's mouth on you and put you at the scene of a drug offence.
• Client-controlled filming or recording. Once footage is out of your hands, it is out forever.
• Any service not listed in the agreed booking.

Approval required. Ask before you agree.

Not banned, but not something you agree to on the night. These need a conversation with LL&Co. and written approval first.

• Fire and flame effects. Prohibited unless separately approved in writing under the high-risk procedure, as covered in the previous section.
• Hot or candle wax on skin as sensation play. This is a burn hazard and a different thing entirely to waxing the buck. Approval only.
• Props the client supplies on the night. You have not checked it, you do not know where it has been, and you cannot vouch for it. Your own props, used in a show you are trained for, are fine.

A note on the classic

Waxing the buck

Waxing the buck is a standard bucks party gag and it is absolutely fine to offer. It is not on the prohibited list. It does need doing properly, because it is the one bit of the job where you are applying something hot to someone else's body.

• Test the temperature on your own wrist first. Every time, not just the first strip.
• Not on broken, sunburnt or irritated skin.
• Not on genitals. Chest, back, legs and arms only.
• Not on someone too drunk to sit still or to properly agree to it. If he cannot hold a conversation, he cannot consent to being waxed.

The tiers, so you know what people ask for

You do not need to offer any of these. You just need to recognise them so nothing takes you by surprise, and so you can decide in advance what is a yes and what is a no for you.

Striptease and lap dances. The most common extra. Can be sold on their own or as a package. If you have not danced before, get trained by an experienced contractor first. It is fine to tell a client you are new and willing to give it a go.

Oil or cream shows. A more involved performance that requires training and sign-off beforehand, and generally involves full nudity. Some versions include a flame element, which is prohibited unless approved in writing under the high-risk procedure.

Toy shows. The most explicit tier, and entirely optional. If you choose to offer them, get trained first and follow the hygiene procedure without shortcuts. The touching rule applies without exception: the client watches, the client does not touch.

Trust your gut

Red flags and when to leave

Your instincts are a safety tool. If something feels off, it usually is. But not every red flag means walking out, so this splits into two lists: things you manage on the night and report afterwards, and things you leave for.

Manage it, and tell us afterwards

Common, annoying, and not on their own a reason to end a booking. Handle them, finish the job, and report them so we know who we are dealing with next time.

• Clients using drugs around you. It happens at a lot of bookings. It is their business, not yours. Do not join in, do not hold anything for anyone, and keep your distance from it. Report it afterwards.
• A drink you did not watch being poured. Do not drink it. Put it down, pour yourself a fresh one, and carry on. This is a normal thing to deal with, not a reason to leave.
• Mild sleaze, bad jokes, or someone chancing their arm. Shut it down, hold your line, and keep the night moving.
• Haggling or a bit of pressure about extras. The answer is no and the price is the price. Annoying, not dangerous.

Leave now

These are different. If any of these are happening, you go, and you will never be questioned for it.

• Threats, intimidation or aggression. Raised voices aimed at you, standing over you, punching walls, or violence toward anyone.
• You feel affected in a way you cannot explain. Dizzy, confused, drowsy, or drunker than you should be. Get out, get to a safe place, tell someone, and get medical help. Do not wait to see if it passes.
• Drugs being pushed on you. Not clients using around you, but anyone trying to get you to take something, or slipping it into a drink.
• Blocking exits or isolating you. Standing in doorways, steering you into another room, separating you from the other girls.
• Sustained sexual harassment after you have said no. Not one bad joke. Someone who will not stop.
• Repeated boundary pushing. You have held the line more than once and they keep coming back at it.
• Filming after you have said no. Phones still out, or recording without your consent.
• Far more people than agreed, or a setup that does not match the booking at all.
• Refusing to pay once the booking has started.
• Stalking behaviour. Following you, turning up, or contacting you outside the booking.

We have your back

If something goes wrong

You are never on your own out there. LL&Co. is your single point of contact, and reaching out is always the right move, before, during, or after a booking.

Reporting

Tell us, and we record it

Telling us is good. Recording it is what actually keeps the next girl safe and keeps bad clients off the books. Report it even if you handled it fine, and even if nothing ended up happening.

• Incident report. Anything that went wrong on a booking.
• Near miss report. Something that almost went wrong. These matter just as much.
• Unsafe client report. A client who pushed, pressured, or made you uneasy.
• Harassment or assault report. Always taken seriously, and always your call on what happens next.
• Missed check-in report. Logged whenever the check-in process is triggered.

Clients who cross the line go on the block register. We keep records of incidents and reviews so the same client cannot quietly book another girl next month. That register only exists because girls report.

Afterwards

Welfare and support

A bad booking does not end when you get home. We offer a debrief and a welfare check after any unsafe booking, assault or harassment, drink spiking concern, near miss, or early exit. You do not have to take it, but it is always there.

There is no penalty, no awkwardness, and no black mark for needing support after a hard night. Looking after yourself afterwards is part of doing this work well, not a sign you cannot handle it.

Wrapping up

After the booking

• Leave when the time is up. The booking ends, you head off. Clean and simple.
• Check out with LL&Co. A quick message to say you are done and heading home closes the loop on your safety net.
• Keep your own records. As a freelancer, your client relationships are yours to build. Track your regulars and your own bookings your way.
• Report anything worth reporting. Good client or bad, tell us. It shapes who we book and who we do not.

Keep this handy

Quick safety checklist

The whole guide, boiled down to what matters most.